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Sunday, November 14, 2010

Confidence Properly Placed

Marcia Lee Laycock writes from central Alberta Canada where she is a pastor's wife and mother of three adult daughters. She was the winner of The Best New Canadian Christian Author Award for her novel, One Smooth Stone and also has two devotional books in print. Her work has been endorsed by Sigmund Brouwer, Janette Oke, Phil Callaway and Mark Buchanan. The sequel to One Smooth Stone will be released in 2011Visit her website at

Some time ago a woman sent me this message - “Not very many people publish books in the area where I live. If they find out you have, they think you're bragging when you mention it. I've been brought up to be humble and it’s hard to break away from the traditions of family and culture.”

I think many artists within the church feel this way. Many of us have experienced those blank looks when we’ve tried to talk to people about our work, whether it be writing, painting, or some other artistic endeavour. Or worse, we’ve experienced the silent disapproval, even shunning. I have a friend who describes it as feeling like a peacock among penguins. So we stop talking about it. We don’t promote our books in our own churches. We feel that promoting our work is blowing our own horn and that seems to go against all we’ve been taught as Christians.

But, does it go against what a Christian is meant to do? Does God want us to remain silent about the work He has given us to do? I don’t think so. If you are an artist of any kind you might be saying, “But people don’t want to hear it.” Did they want to hear what Jesus had to say? The majority didn’t. “But they don’t understand.” Did they understand Him? The majority didn’t – not even His best friends really understood what He told them. Did He keep silent?

Well, at times He did. There were times when he healed and told the recipient not to tell anyone. He rebuked spirits and told them to be quiet when they tried to shout about who He was. The time was not right. But the time did come and when it did He preached and healed and let the people cry, “Hosanna to the King of Kings.”

Can we learn a lesson or two from Jesus here? Jesus is the supreme example of humility, of confidence properly placed, as Haddon Robinson defines it. He knew who He was, He knew where He was going, He was constantly listening for His father’s voice and when He heard it, He obeyed. That’s how He knew when it was time to be silent and when it was time to speak.

There will be many times in our journey as writers, as artists, when we will be reluctant to speak, to tell people – strangers, friends, church family – that God has given us a talent, given us a particular something to do and we have been working hard at it. They will reject us. They will not understand. We will want to keep silent.

Who can blame us, we say. Well, God can. Holding back from using what God has given us is something He’s not likely to reward us for. Read Matthew 25:14-30, the parable of the ten talents. What happened to the one servant who buried his talent is not a pretty picture.

So what are we to do? Deuteronomy 31:7-8 gives us the answer. “Be strong and courageous,” Moses told Joshua. Some translations say bold and courageous. Joshua knew a little about humility – confidence properly placed. He knew who he was, he knew where he was going, he constantly listened for God’s voice and when he heard he obeyed.

Know who you are as a writer who is Christian, know where God wants you to go, constantly listen for His voice and when you hear it, obey.

Be bold. Be courageous.


  1. Thank you. I feel like this blog was written just for me! It couldn't come at a better time.

  2. Excellent post! I know about the blank looks you're talking about. A peacock among penguins. I feel that way too.

    In a world where it's easier to blend in, where it's already plenty difficult to get published, we don't need the kind of judgement we sometimes receive ~ even from members of our own church. We need extra support.

    I confess. After my poetic gift book, "A Friend in the Storm" was published this Fall, I started fearing that people at church thought I was tooting my own horn.

    Missionaries aren't afraid to garner people to rally around them for love and support. Why should we be? Those of us who write to bring the world closer to Christ are missionaries of words. We need to humbly raise awareness about our ministry too. We also need dependable prayer support.

    I like how you talk about Christ listening to His Father. He didn't look at people's reactions, only at His Father's. If we're humble in heart like Christ, we'll be one step closer to being "strong and courageous."

    No, we mustn't expect it will be easy. Being different or "set apart" never is.

    Lord, may we be like You.


    I think I'm going to link to your post from my "A Friend in the Storm" facebook fan page because your Biblical perspective will encourage many. Thanks for being a light!!

  3. This is such a good reflection. I can relate. The point you make about Christ knowing who he was and listening to his father's voice and then obeying is powerful.

  4. Thanks for the kind words, all.

    Cheryl - thanks for this - "Those of us who write to bring the world closer to Christ are missionaries of words." Yes! :)

  5. I'm a week behind with my Novel Journey reading, but just wanted to thank you for this post, Marcia. I've just copied out your last paragraphs to add to my journal. I'm one of those who often has trouble "tooting my own horn", feeling as if it's unattractive bragging, but I appreciate your wisdom and the suggestion to learn from Christ's example.


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