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Sunday, January 17, 2016

Why You Need a Writing Mentor

Why You Need a Writing Mentor
by Heather L.L. FitzGerald


Heather FitzGerald is a member of the North Texas Christian Writers, and helps to facilitate the Manet writer’s group in Fort Worth, Texas. Her first novel, The Tethered World, is available on Amazon for preorder and will be available in paperback on February 1st, 2016. The Tethered World is a YA Fantasy about a teenage girl that learns her family is secretly involved with creatures that once lived in the Garden of Eden.


You can connect with Heather on her website/blogFacebook, Pintrest: (Belongs to her main character, Sadie), Character blog: (Sadies mom has a blog about legendary creatures.), Twitter, Instagram, Goodreads.




Some things are better in the raw. Vegetables, for example. Chock full of vitamin-y goodness fresh from the garden, sans heat. Sushi fans may argue that fish is best enjoyed straight from the ocean, paired with wasabi saucethat green stuff capable of burning holes in your tonsils.

But talent, raw talent, does not fall into the preferred rawcategory. Nope. Some things only reach their full potential when placed under pressure. What bride would prefer a large chunk of rawdiamondaka a lump of coalover a small, sparkling gem? 

Writers may be born with an innate gift for words, but a true wordsmith is, well, a different story. In the same way that a wannabe-blacksmith must apprentice under a master blacksmith, wannabe-authors needs to learn from others who have mastered their craft. They need a writing mentor.

Accountability and feedback are keys to a good mentor/novice relationship. Though a writers conference may equip you with tools and wisdom, how will you know if youre implementing them correctly? How do you take dogmatic advice from a workshop and apply it to your own story without losing your voice? A good mentor allows you to apply a touch of color to that black and white list of writing rulesbut theyll also hand you a big fat eraser when you get carried away (it looks a lot like a red pen).

Finding the right mentor, one who gets you, is the challenge. My own mentor, author Susan K. Marlow, came along in a providential manner. I reviewed her book. She contacted me and asked if I was a writer. Timidly, I answered yes. Then she asked to see some of my work. Gulp.

Six years later, weve become good friends, but she is still, first and foremost, my mentor. My invaluable mentor. My go-to with questions, ideas, and now, my edits. Thanks to her sacrificial interest in my raw talent, shes turned this chunk of coal into a sparkly little cubic zirconia.

Diamonds take much longer than six years.

Of course, when Susan reached out, I didnt know that our relationship would evolve in this way, nor that I needed such guidance. Perhaps you see the need but dont have a writer reaching out to you. What can you do?

A good critique group can fill the role of mentor. Look for a group with a mixture of talent. My first writers group included six people old enough to be my grandparents, and me. No one had professional experience. Zilch. And it was nothing short of awkward to listen to a seventy-five year old woman read her five pages of erotica. Seriously.

So, dont be afraid to try different groups. The internet is your best resource for finding a well organized association that meets at a convenient time. And if adding one more stop in your busy month is unrealistic, there are a plethora of groups onlineespecially helpful if you live in a small town.

Utilizing the give and take of a critique group will benefit your writing exponentially. And, its the most natural way to find that special someonewho may become your ideal instructor. Put yourself out there and politely ask if they might be willing to work with you one-on-one. Notice I didnt say fact-to-face. An email relationship works beautifully and is less imposing on valuable time. Susan and I worked for four years before meeting in person.

And in this busy world, dont be offended if the person you ask turns you down. Chalk it up as practice for rejection letters! Keep meeting with your group, network with other writers, and eventually something will click.

Though Im continually amazed at how far I have to go, Ive learned a few things along the way, thanks to Susan. I dont feel ready for a full-fledged apprentice of my own, but I want to be mindful of the generosity Ive received. Opportunities abound to encourage and inspire within my circle of writerly friends.

Eventually itll be my turn to pay it forward. Thanks to my mentor, I have an excellent example to follow.

3 comments:

Robin Mason said...

author brain alert:
"...What bride would prefer a large chunk of “raw” diamond—aka a lump of coal—over a small, sparkling gem?"
answer: a goth bride! not my genre but might be a fun story to write! LOL

great post Heather, you have nudged me to seek out a mentor!
ps, thanks too, for the mention that sometimes people say no 'cause they're busy not because the don't like me! hahahah

Jennette Mbewe said...

I have always wanted a mentor of sorts, whether it was spiritual, parenting, or writing. But I've not had one in this sense, and I'm sure God has a reason for it, or I'm haven't figured something out. Ha! But I did just read an article about how we can have mentors from a distance. Books, blogs, speakers, etc. Sure these aren't personal, specific information in regards to our needs, but it's a start. More of piece of the puzzle though.

Great post!

Heather FitzGerald said...

Robin Mason--Ha ha, that's a good one :) I'm glad the wheels are turning to find a mentor. Just be patient and connect with many writers. Eventually something will work out. Thanks for commenting!

Jennette Mbewe--I agree! Mentors can definitely come in different forms during different seasons. I think God just knew that this was vital to get me going in the right direction and brought her along ASAP. Thanks for stopping by :)